I enjoy and appreciate when exotic male dancers participate in theme nights or wear costumes and underwear that reflect popular culture or the seasons.
There are three reasons that an exotic male dancer should keep a costume and underwear monthly calendar. One: By dressing for theme nights and the seasons, you provide an extra element that customers will enjoy and the club staff will appreciate. This often translates into more booked gigs and more tips. Two: It provides another opportunity to promote yourself using customer favorite colors, costumes and themes. And Three: It shows you are a professional in your commitment to your performance which leads to success for you and the bar or club where you perform.
I created this calendar to help exotic male dancers plan ahead and be prepared for special dates and events each month of the year. There are four sections: A calendar of special dates, popular themes and colors, ideas for selfies and a check list for upcoming months.
I have added some fun national and international calendar days for promotional pic ideas. I have linked the events to a location where you can find more information online. If I find I have missed a special day or event, I will add it to the monthly calendars at that time. If you notice I have missed something or know of a fun addition to a monthly calendar, please leave a comment below and let me know.
Bookmark this blog and you can refer to it each month to help you come up with ideas and stay prepared. Be sure to add in the local events that you are involved in.
Most events listed in the calendars are U.S. related. If you are outside the U.S., use this calendar as a sample and create your own calendar using your local and national events.
| Day | Event |
| 1 | New Year's Day |
| 5 | National Whipped Cream Day |
| 15 | National Hat Day |
| 25 | National Police Appreciation Day |
| Third Monday | Martin Luther King Day |
January Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: Policeman, Hats, Whipped Cream, Football Bowl Games, Parades, Winter And Snow, Martin Luther King.
Colors: White, Gray and Purple.
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For January:
- Post a pic on New Year's Day of you wearing a jersey or hat of your favorite team that will be playing in a bowl game.
- Take several selfies wearing different hats. Crop and put them all together in one pic. Or, post all pics separately on National Hat Day.
- Post a pic of you in a Policeman Costume
- Post a pic of you using whipped cream in a creative way on National Whipped Cream Day.
- During the month post pics of you wearing white, purple or gray underwear.
Check List For January
As early as January 2, check at local retail stores and online for holiday and New Year discounted clothing and props that you can use for next year. It will be marked down by 50% or more at this time.
Possible performances for January could involve a Policeman, something with whip cream, and costumes that have a hat.
Order costumes and underwear for March. Popular colors for March are green, yellow, and light purple. Underwear Prints Search Ideas: Four Leaf Clovers, leprechauns, rainbows, pot of gold, Easter eggs, Mardi Gras, basketballs and basketball team logos.
Popular costume themes for March include St. Patrick's Day, Bunny Mask, Easter eggs, basketball referee, police, criminals, prisoners and the lifeguard.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 2 | Ground Hog Day |
| 10 | National Umbrella Day |
| 14 | Valentine's Day |
| 22 | National Margarita Day |
| 27 | National Strawberry Day |
| 29 | Leap Day |
| First Sunday | Super Bowl |
| Third Monday | Presidents' Day |
| 47 days before Easter | Mardi Gras |
| All Month | Black History Month |
| Varies | Academy Awards Ceremony (OSCARS) |
February Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: Valentine's, Hearts, Cupid, Super Bowl, Movies (Oscars), Mardi Gras (some years).
Colors: Red, White, Black and Pink. If Mardi Gras falls in February add green, purple and gold.
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For February:
- Post a pic of you wearing fan gear for one of the teams in the Superbowl.
- Post a sexy pic using an umbrella on National Umbrella Day
- Post a sexy pic for Valentine's Day
- Post a red, white and blue underwear or flag pic on Presidents' Day.
- Post a pic with margarita in hand for National Margarita Day.
- Post a seductive and sexually suggestive pic while eating strawberries on National Strawberry Day.
- On a year with Leap Day, be creative and post a pic.
- Post a pic for Mardi Gras...so many options on this.
- During the month post a pic of you wearing white, purple and gray underwear.
- Find a creative way to post a pic for Black History Month.
- During the month post pics of you wearing red, white, black, pink green purple and gold underwear.
Check List For February
As early as February 15, check at local retail stores and online for Valentine's discounted clothing and props that you can use for next year. It will be marked down by 50% or more at this time.
Possible performances for February could involve an umbrella, Valentine romance, patriotic, margaritas, strawberries, Super Bowl and Mardi Gras.
Order costumes and underwear for April. Popular colors for April are the pastels: light versions of red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple,.
Popular costume themes for April include April fools, superheroes, Uncle Sam (taxes) and Tarzan for National Banana Day. If Easter falls in April, add bunny mask, ears, and tail.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 14 | Steak And Blow Job Day |
| 17 | St. Patrick's Day |
| 23 | First Day Of Spring |
| Begins in March | March Madness - NCAA Basketball Tournament |
| Varies | Spring Break |
| Between March 22-April 25 | Easter |
| All Month | National Criminal Justice Month |
March Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: St. Patrick's Day, 4 Leaf Clovers, Green Beer, Basketball, police, criminals, zoot suits, prison guards, and prisoners. If Easter falls in March then bunny mask, ears and tail, Easter eggs. Add Mardi Gras on years that it falls in March.
Colors: Green, Yellow, Light Purple. If Mardi Gras falls in March add green, purple and gold.
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For March:
- Post a pic of you outside in the sunshine for Spring.
- Post a sexy pic of you wearing green for St. Patrick's Day.
- Post a pic wearing gear supporting your favorite basketball team in the NCAA basketball tournament.
- Post a related pic if Easter falls in March.
- Post a related pic if Mardi Gras falls in March..
- During the month post pics of you wearing green, yellow, light purple, dark purple and gold underwear.
Check List For March
Check at local retail stores and online the day after, for St. Patrick's and Mardi Gras discounted clothing and props that you can use for next year. It will be marked down by 50% or more at this time.
Possible performances for March could involve Mardi Gras, St. Patrick's Day, Basketball, Spring Break, and Easter.
Order costumes and underwear for May. Popular colors for May are red, purple and yellow. Underwear fun prints to search for: rooster (cock), Star Wars, Cinco De Mayo, Wine and Firetrucks.
Popular costume themes for May include Star Wars, Fireman, Patriotic, Military and Leather.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 1 | April Fool's Day |
| 7 | National Beer Day |
| 15 | Tax Day |
| 22 | Earth Day |
| 24 | National Pigs In A Blanket Day |
| 28 | National Superhero Day |
| 29 | National Zipper Day |
| First Sunday | National Penis Day (Japan) |
| Third Wednesday | National Banana Day |
| All Month | Jazz Appreciation Month |
April Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: April Fool's pranks, beer, superheroes, zippers, jazz music, musical instruments, bananas and Tarzan, the ape man. If Easter falls in April then bunny mask, ears and tail, Easter eggs.
Colors: Pastels (red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple).
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For April:
- If you like beer, post a pic of you drinking a beer on National Beer Day. In your underwear of course, or nude and hold the beer to hide your junk.
- Eating certain foods is sometimes very sexy. If you are straight, post a pic of you holding a banana for National Banana Day. If you are gay, use your imagination.
- If you have one or can borrow one, post a pic of you in a Superhero costume on National Superhero Day..
- On National Zipper Day, post a pic or video of you revealing something with a zipper.
- Post a related pic for National Penis Day. Use your discretion as to what can be posted on social media. If you want, go for it on Twitter and if you do, my twitter account is @mimotion. Send it to me. **Insert my evil grin here**
- April is Jazz Appreciation Month. Post a nude pic of you with your junk hidden behind a musical instrument.
- During the month post pics of you wearing pastel colors of underwear (light colors of red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple).
Check List For April
Possible performances for April could involve an April Fool's prank such as stripping as a nerd, a President, an Ape or monkey, etc. Zip yourself out of a sleeping bag as a Boy Scout, or other type of camper. Strip as a superhero. Become Uncle Sam for Tax Day. Try a cool jazz musician holding his instrument.
Order costumes and underwear for June. Look for underwear in rainbow colors for Pride. Wear solid colored underwear in the colors of red, orange, yellow, green, blue or purple.
June underwear fun prints to search for: U.S. flag, martinis, sunglasses, broadway show related, graduation related, rainbows and soccer.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 4 | National Star Wars Day |
| 4 | International Fire Fighters Day |
| 5 | Cinco de Mayo |
| 11 | National Twilight Zone Day |
| 14 | National Dance Like A Chicken Day |
| 23 | National Taffy Day |
| 25 | National Wine Day |
| Second Sunday | Mother's Day |
| Third Friday | NASCAR Day |
| Third Saturday | Armed Forces Day |
| Last Monday | Memorial Day |
| Memorial Day Weekend | International Mr. Leather Contest |
May Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: Star Wars, Fireman, Military and Leather.
Colors: Red, Purple, Yellow, Peach and Plum.
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For May:
- Do you have a Star Wars Costume? Post pic on May 4.
- Or, post a pic of you as a Fireman on May 4.
- Post a selfie with a Mexican Theme for Cindo de Mayo.
- Get creative with a strange pic on National Twilight Zone Day.
- Are you brave enough to post a video of you dancing like a chicken on May 14?
- Post pics of you eating taffy on May 23 and drinking wine on May 25.
- A racecar driver costume pic would be hot on NASCAR Day. Pics beside or in hot cars are always noticed.
- A military themed pic will work for Armed Forces Day and Memorial Day.
- Memorial Day weekend... post a pic of you in leather.
- During the month post pics of you wearing red, purple, yellow, peach and plum colored underwear.
Check List For May
Possible performance themes for May could involve Star Wars, a Fireman, Cinco de Mayo, Military and Leather.
Order costumes and underwear for July. Look for underwear in red, white and blue for Independence Day. Also, look for a bikini brief...National Bikini Day is July 5.
July underwear fun prints to search for: U.S. flag, fireworks, hot dogs, lollipops, cowboy hats, boots, spurs or red, white and blue stripes.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 9 | National Stripper Appreciation Day |
| 14 | National Flag Day |
| 19 | National Martini Day |
| 21 | Go Skateboarding Day |
| 27 | National Sunglasses Day |
| Third Sunday | Father's Day |
| Varies | Tony Awards For Broadway Shows |
| Varies | Graduations |
| All Month | PRIDE |
| Varies | Soccer World Cup |
June Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: Pride, Soccer, Skateboard, Sunglasses and Graduation.
Colors: Rainbow (Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, Purple)
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For June:
- Post a tease pic for National Stripper Day
- Try a martini. Take a pic.
- Are you a skateboarder? Post a pic.
- Post a pic for National Sunglasses Day.
- Put on the rainbow for PRIDE. Take a pic.
- Baseball players are always sexy. Put together a uniform. Post a pic.
- Summer is in full swing. Dress like a lifeguard. Post a pic.
- During the month post pics of you wearing rainbow colors of underwear.
Check List For June
Possible performance themes for June could involve Pride, Soccer player, baseball player, skateboarder, sunglasses, pool party, lifeguard, summer and graduation.
Order costumes and underwear for August. Look for underwear in red, yellow, dark green, earth tones.
August underwear fun prints to search for: eggplant, football, team logos and the sun.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 4 | Independence Day |
| 5 | National Bikini Day |
| 6 | International Kissing Day |
| 14 | National Nude Day |
| 17 | National Hot Dog Day |
| 20 | National Lollipop Day |
| Fourth Saturday | National Day Of The Cowboy |
July Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: 4th of July, Fireworks, Bikini, Kissing, Nude, Hot Dogs, Lollipops, Americana, Cowboys and Summer
Colors: Red, White and Blue
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For June:
- Post a selfie for July 4th - American Flag, Fireworks, etc.
- Skimpy underwear pic for National Bikini Day.
- Take a pic of you kissing your significant other or a close friend.
- Definitely have to post a nude pic with junk covered for social media.
- Take a suggestive pic with a hot dog, a fun phallic symbol.
- Gay guys should take a pic enjoying a lollipop for National Lollipop Day.
- Everyone must take a cowboy pic on National Day Of The Cowboy. Cowboys are one of the male stripper icons.
- During the month post pics of you wearing red, white and/or blue underwear.
Check List For July
Possible performance themes for July could involve a cowboy, strip to nude (junk covered if needed), baseball player, enjoy a hot dog or lollipop on stage, summer, strip down to a swimsuit - then remove it behind a beach towel.
Order costumes and underwear for September. Look for underwear in blue, burnt orange or rust, and mint green.
September underwear fun prints to search for: pirates, comic book characters, coffee, laborers, hand tools, tv celebrities, Native American icons, video game characters and big trucks.
Looking for ideas for a sexy cowboy costume? Check out our page with tips and suggestions.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 1-7 | International Clown Week |
| 3 | Grab Some Nuts Day |
| 5 | National Underwear Day |
| 17 | National Eggplant Day |
| 19 | Aviation Day |
| 25 | National Banana Split Day |
| First Friday | International Beer Day |
| End Of The Month | Football Season Begins |
| End Of The Month | Back To School |
August Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: Clowns, Nuts, Underwear, Eggplant, Pilots, Banana Splits, Football and Back To School.
Colors: Red, Yellow, Black and Dark Green
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For August:
- Post a selfie either as a clown or clowning around.
- Post a pic of you grabbing your nuts for Grab Some Nuts Day.
- National Underwear Day - Post an epic pic...special location, underwear, lighting, props, etc.
- Aviation Day - Do you have a pilot's uniform or flight suit?
- Take a suggestive pic with a banana split, another fun phallic symbol.
- Drink a beer in a pilsner or mug, take a pic.
- Do you have football pads, uniform, etc? If not, take one in a team jersey, underwear and a football.
- Those young enough to look like college students should post a student looking pic in underwear. Use backpack as prop. Wear glasses.
- During the month post pics of you wearing red, yellow black and dark green underwear.
Check List For August
Possible performance themes for August could involve a clown, Strip to nude holding an eggplant in front of your junk, wear a flight suit with no underwear underneath, enjoy a banana split on stage, football begins this month, and if you can pull of a student look - strip as a student with backpack wearing glasses.
Order costumes and underwear for October. Look for underwear in orange, black, purple, green and yellow.
October underwear fun prints to search for: Halloween, Scarecrow, crows, bats, skeletons, pumpkins, witches, black cats, monsters, motorcycles, sausages, baseballs, beer and Charlie Brown's The Great Pumpkin.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 7 | National Salami Day |
| 12 | National Video Games Day |
| 13 | Fortune Cookie Day |
| 13 | Uncle Sam Day |
| 19 | International Talk Like A Pirate Day |
| Varies (19-23) | Beginning of Autumn |
| 29 | National Coffee Day |
| Fourth Friday | Native American Day |
| First Monday | Labor Day |
| Varies | Emmy Awards |
| Third Week | Construction Appreciation Week |
| All Month | Trucker Appreciation Month |
| All Month | Males In Motion Anniversary Month |
September Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: Pirates, Coffee, Eggplant, Native Americans, general laborers, construction worker, redneck truckers and ninjas.
Colors: Blue, Burnt Orange, Rust and Mint Green
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For September:
- Post a selfie with a large salami or sausage.
- Post a pic of you wearing a video game character costume.
- Do you have a ninja costume?
- Dress like a pirate for Talk Like A Pirate Day
- Honor Native American Day with a pic.
- Post a pic of you with a cup of coffee or video of you making coffee (nude or in underwear of course) on National Coffee Day.
- Open coveralls and tools will make a sexy Labor Day pic.
- Anything on TV worth copying in a pic? Emmy Awards are this month.
- Dress as a construction worker for a pic.
- Take a pic beside a 18-wheeler truck.
- During the month post pics of you wearing blue, burnt orange, rust or mint green underwear.
Check List For September
Possible performance themes for September could involve video game characters, a ninja, Uncle Sam, a pirate, Native American, TV characters, construction worker or a redneck trucker.
Order costumes and underwear for November. Look for underwear in orange, brown, golden yellow, white and black.
November underwear fun prints to search for: Turkeys, Pilgrims, pumpkin pie, military, cake, 'cakes', patriotic and parades.
For a sexy construction worker costume, check out our page for tips and ideas.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 6 | Madhatter Day |
| 10 | National Tuxedo Day |
| 12 | National Farmer's Day |
| 13 | Navy Day |
| 20 | National Suspenders Day |
| 30 | National Candy Corn Day |
| 31 | Halloween |
| Second Saturday | National Motorcycle Ride Day |
| All Month | National Sausage Month |
| Varies | Baseball World Series |
| First part of month | Oktoberfest |
| Last Friday | Frankenstein Friday |
October Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: Hats, Tuxedo, James Bond, Farmers, Scarecrow, Navy, Halloween, Sausages, Oktoberfest and Frankenstein. With Halloween being this month, the costume themes are endless. Have fun! Go epic!
Colors: Orange, Black, Purple, Green, Golden Yellow and Brown.
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For October:
- Post a sexy selfie of you with a cup of coffee, or apple cider. Good Morning!.
- Post a pic of you wearing a crazy hat on Madhatter Day..
- Do you have access to a Tuxedo? Do a James Bond type pic.
- Dress like a farmer, farmboy...overalls and straw hat, no shirt, nothing underneath.
- Put on a pair of fun suspenders with your underwear, no shirt. Take a pic.
- Take a picture of you eating a carmel apple, candy corn, or other Fall food item.
- Take several pics of you in your Halloween costume. Post at least one this year and save a few to post next year before Halloween.
- If you have access to a motorcycle, take a sexy pic of you with the motorocycle, on it, riding it. Leather jackets, boots and underwear is a hot look.
- Take sexually suggestive pics with a long sausage for National Sausage Month.
- The baseball world series is this month. Pose with your favorite team gear on. Make it sexy of course.
- During the month post pics of you wearing orange, black, purple, green, gold underwear.
Check List For October
Possible performance themes for October could involve hats, a tuxedo, a farmer or farm boy, Navy, Halloween, Motorcycle rider, sausage, baseball and Oktoberfest.
Order costumes and underwear for December. Look for underwear in red, green, white, silver, gold and other metallics.
December underwear fun prints to search for: Holidays, candy canes, Santa, gifts, ornaments, Christmas lights, Christmas trees, gingerbread men and toys.
If possible go shopping on November 1 for Halloween costumes and underwear for next year. Most will be marked down to 50% off or more.
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 4 | King Tut Day |
| 5 | National Love Your Red Hair Day |
| 6 | National Saxophone Day |
| 10 | U.S. Marine Corp Day |
| 11 | Veterans Day |
| 26 | National Cake Day |
| Varies | Election Day |
| Fourth Thursday | Thanksgiving Day |
| Friday after Thanksgiving | Black Friday |
November Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: Egyptian, Gingers, Musicians, Military, Jazz, Cake, 'Cakes', Patriotic, Thanksgiving and Black Friday.
Colors: Burnt Orange, Black, White, Golden Yellow, Copper and Brown.
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For November:
- Do you have an Egyptian costume? Add one to your inventory. Take a pic.
- Are you a Ginger? Celebrate that fact or dye your hair. Become one for a few days and take a pic.
- Take a nude pic of yourself with your junk covered with a musical instrument.
- Add a military look pic to your Instagram and other social media.
- Take a pic of you eating cake. Take a pic of your 'cakes'.
- Do a patriotic pic and hopefully you voted, so add your "I voted" sticker in the shot.
- Thanksgiving is food, football, Pilgrims and Indians, pumpkin pie and more. Take several pics to post at various times.
- During the month post pics of you wearing burnt orange, black, white, gold, copper and brown underwear.
Check List For November
Possible performance themes for November: Egyptian, Pharaoh, Military, Patriotic, Chef, Pilgrim, Native Americans and Football.
Order costumes and underwear for January. Look for underwear in white, gray, midnight blue and dark purple.
January underwear fun prints to search for: football, parades, geometric designs, diamonds, winter hats and gloves, snow shoes and boots.
January costumes could include police, hats and professional football team jerseys.
If you are brave, go shopping on Black Friday for underwear and props to use in performances during the rest of the year. Research the shopping ads first and prioritize what you really want to buy. Then run. Good luck!
| Day | Event |
|---|---|
| 5 | National Bathtub Party Day |
| 6 | St. Nicholas Day |
| 7 | National Cotton Candy Day |
| 21 or 22 | Winter Solstice |
| 25 | Christimas |
| 31 | New Year's Eve |
| First Monday | National Lap Dance Day |
| First Friday | National Bartender Appreciation Day |
December Popular Themes And Colors
Themes: Bathtub, Holidays, Candy, New Year's Eve, Lap Dance, Santa, Snowman, Gingerbread man, Toy Soldier, Christmas Toys and Santa's Elves.
Colors: Red, Green, Gold, Silver and White.
- Ideas For Selfies And Promo Images For November:
- Take a sexy pic of you decorating your Christmas tree.
- Take a nude pic with your junk hidden behind an ornament.
- Take a sexy pic of you in a bathtub. Remember to cover your junk with bubbles.
- Dress like Santa. Red suit, or hat and underwear in red, green, silver, gold, etc.
- Take a pic of you eating cotton candy or a candy cane.
- Take a pic of you nude with your junk hidden behind a wrapped gift.
- Take a pic at night when you are only lit by Christmas lights.
- Take a pic of you giving a customer or friend a lap dance.
- Take a selfie with bartenders at all the clubs where you perform. Post and let them know how much they are appreciated.
- Take a pic of you in your New Year's Eve finest.
- During the month post pics of you wearing red, green, gold, silver and white underwear.
Check List For December
Possible performance themes for December: In a bathtub, stripping Santa, stripping snowman, Santa's elf, stripping Grinch, Toy Soldier, Gingerbread man or a Christmas toy.
Order costumes and underwear for February. Look for underwear in red, white, black and pink.
February underwear fun prints to search for: hearts, cupid, Valentines, umbrellas, strawberries and Pro-football teams. If in February, add Mardi Gras colors and themes.
If possible go shopping on December 26 for Holiday costumes and underwear for next year. Most will be marked down to 50% off or more.
Final Thoughts On Costumes And Underwear
There are so many costume ideas that I obviously could not put them all in this article. Be creative and discover those I've missed. Please let me know in the comments below.
There are also a lot of underwear print options that have not been mentioned. Find something unique and fun.
If you need ideas for the selfie pics in costumes and underwear, I wrote an article with 62 Selfie Ideas For Male Strippers. Create pics that make you stand out from all the rest.
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